The highly anticipated Valentine’s Day is rapidly approaching. If you (just like everybody else) don’t want to spend this day alone, now is the perfect time to find out about a sure way to get a boyfriend. And no, it is not complicated at all – you simply need to reverse the game. Asking out someone on a date is still considered a thing only guys should do, and that presents a great opportunity for every girl who is brave enough to try doing this. However, if you are still unsure whether this is the right way to go, let’s look at what will happen if you decide to ask him out.
It’s Unexpected and Intriguing
It is so unusual that even if you don’t do it as smoothly as you wanted, you will immediately get his full attention. Being asked out by a girl happens very rarely (if ever) for most of the guys out there, and he will most likely be delighted to at least give you a chance. Additionally, since you’ve made the first move, he will feel obliged to return the favor and to take the lead from that moment on.
Confidence is Highly Attractive
Let’s face it – being confident is probably the sexiest internal feature a person can have. And what projects confidence more than asking a guy out? Just by doing that, you will become more attractive to him. It is no secret that men adore brave women who are not afraid of taking the initiative from time to time in order to get what they want.
Sometimes it’s the Only Solution
There could be hundred reasons why he didn’t ask you out. He might think you are out of his league. He might think you are already dating someone. He might be lacking confidence at the moment because of personal stuff he’s going through. You may simply look unapproachable to him at the specific moment. Some of the reasons are legit, and some are not. But, if you really like him, do the thing he probably also wants to do himself and ask him out. In the end, he’s maybe just a shy guy even though he’s great in every other way. And how else would you get a date with a shy guy? Well, you can probably get to know each other well using online dating apps, can’t you?
Maybe He Just Needs a Push
The guy you like may be your friend or colleague. He may simply not look at you as a potential girlfriend, whether he finds you attractive or not. Now, this is somewhat risky, but if you really want to spend Valentine’s Day on a romantic date with this guy, it could be really worth it. After all, he might just need a little push to become aware that the two of you can be more than just friends. Asking him out can be that little push.
These days, most men and women complain about being single. Men are for some reason getting more and more scared of approaching women. On the other hand, not many women have dared to ask guys they like out, even though most of these tries are successful. Perhaps both sides should be more initiative and things will be smooth sailing from here on.